You ARE the Universe.You are not IN the Universe, you ARE the Universe; An intrinsic part of it. Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the Universe is becoming conscious of itself. What an amazing miracle.
Remember this. It's nice to have things, but those things are not who you are. You should NEVER abuse people for having less, or for giving less than what you deem "appropriate." They might be giving all the can, and often more than they can afford.