It's a skill, a practice that your devote much of your time to, because being a gentleman, and being the best that you can always be for your woman is one of the most important things in a relationship.
Butlers pantry, barn sliding door to main retreat w TV room (bed 2 made smaller) make bed 3 larger. Put window over sink on front tce side. Pitch roof also. Lose window west of dining room for sideboard. Maybe put wall in kitchen where stools are