Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself. Enabling is doing for someone things that he could and should be doing himself. #enabling #quotes

And your not an evil person for knowing the difference and insist that some independence be encouraged

We can love & still call each other out on our stuff...accountability

"Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to unconditionally accept bad behaviors." Don't let loved ones treat you badly and that means parents, siblings, offspring, extended family and long term friends.

Quotes About Living - Doe Zantamata: Love - Incentive for change

Quotes About Living - Doe Zantamata: Love - Incentive for change This is exactly what I'm going through.

"Do not let someone's irresponsibility become your responsibility."  -Sharon…

So incredibly proud of myself.I have paid in benefits dentist appointments and prescriptions in one year.And paid back the government 733 of the money I owe them.Feeling like a great person.I can look back and say people were wrong about me.

Enabling on Pinterest | Al Anon, Codependency Quotes and ...

The worst thing is watching someone drown and not being able to convince them that they can save themselves by just standing up

Nobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.

If You Think Something’s Not Right, Just Ask

Nobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.read it, learn it.

56 Great Motivational Quotes That Will Make Your Day

56 Great Motivational Quotes That Will Make Your Day

You should bring people up if u can if not then just be good to ur self n don't let them bring u down by RamonaS

Addiction Quote Print by HotCreativeMess

So tired of those that enable. I will no longer feel bad for cutting those out of my life with addictions. Addiction Quote Print by HotCreativeMess

understand the difference ~ hold that person accountable rather than allowing the unacceptable behavior to continue ~ they will finally find the joy & peace they crave & know unconditional love :) Allowing a person to keep repeating bad behavior is not real love . . .

Understand the difference between helping and enabling. Don't participate in someone else's misbehavior. dedicated to anyone who needs inspiration, healing words, and support.

Give them the opportunity

When you enable someone, you don't give them the opportunity to solve their own problems. Stop with the financial handouts, etc!

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