A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse. Using guilt trips to control and manipulate their victim. Playing on their emotions. Putting their "spin" on the truth to confuse and manipulate. This behavior is abusive!
/// You cannot talk to an emotional manipulator because they don't see things like regular personalities do. They are immune to your feelings, don't give a damn and in total denial about how toxic they behave.
Don't ever feel bad for making a decision about your own life that upsets other people. you are not responsible for their happiness. you're responsible for your own happiness. Anyone who wants you to live in misery for their happiness should not be in
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? " There are great laws in the Bible that specifically speak of the certainty of setting boundaries.
White Guilt: the primary weapon of the emotional abusers is the deliberate infliction of guilt. They use guilt the same way a loan shark uses money. they don't want the 'debt' paid off because they live quite happily on the 'interest' - Andrew Vachss