whatever the choice is, the options will surely be based on his current situation which arised from his previous life decisions. No need to judge. Just be factual. Everything will be seen clearer than mineral water.
I know people like this. So… Messy kitchen = great meals. Pet hair, furniture with scratch marks, and dog toys to trip over = cuddly bundles of love. Cluttered table tops = fun projects and handmade gifts for friends. Please don't judge my dust.