When the WORD of God is first place and final authority in a marriage, the marriage succeds and life is so much better! ~~ I believe that it's important to place God first even in the beginning of relationships. God is my cornerstone.
Scripture: "Lord, may my children see a marriage worth imitating when they look at our marriage." –Ephesians - yes my vision is that God will show my children miracles through my marriage restoration and they will want a marriage like ours someday .
I don't think it's necessarily what to say when marriage is hard, I think they're questions and statements that apply to every day life. Open & honest communication is the key to a great marriage, which I do have :)