The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply. Learning how to listen means visting another world and speaking their language, putting our discomfort aside. Imago therapy is best for learning how.
This goes out to my best friend Shelby. She always knows my feeling even when people think I am perfectly fine. Shelby is the one person that I trust with all my problems and pains even if they are the smallest things in the world!