If the enabling from everyone doesn't stop you'll never change. I love you more than you'll ever know and because I do walking away hurts a lot less than watching you repeatedly ruin your life making endless bad choice you know you shouldn't.
I only sought recovery when my family stopped enabling me. I was told I had no home to come back to while I was in detox. It lead to the decision to move 1000 miles away from home for rehab. Best decision of my life.
I am not their friend. I am their mother. I know too many people who are so worried about their kids "liking" them that they get away with almost anything.maybe being an "evil" mother will help your kids to become contributing members of society.
Empowerment Is Free: Stop Protecting People From The Natural Consequences Of Their Actions - It is our job as loved ones to try to help those we love, but when you love people into helplessness, you a(Try Not To Laugh Parenting)