I found this on Christmas Eve. On Christmas, this very thing happened. But ridiculing my values in front of 15 people is ok, because she was "only kidding." Did that fly with the Latino guests who got to hear the racist jokes over dinner, too?
My main dilemma: "Is this someone who really wants to know and will respect my choice, or is this person only asking so they can proceed to make rude, unintelligent remarks?" Vegan humour or more like a reality