If you have to give yourself a 30 day relationship "challenge" which is comprised of things that should just be given and not even thought twice about, you're doing it wrong. He deserves all of these things everyday, period.
I'm in the process of doing some Open When cards for my long distance boyfriend. Here are the titles of each card I'm making. I also decided to do one with the answers to some of the puzzles I'm putting in a couple of them. (: <-- this sounds amazing.