Read More About Actions speak louder and truer. Believing someones actions above their words will protect you from the wrong people if you pay attention, don't ignore, excuse or rationalize away the duality and fol.
This is exactly why I don't open up to people. What if they don't care about me as much as I thought they did? They to HAVE to show me exactly how much they care about me before I feel confident enough to open up to them.