it's not always obvious. <---- actually, rabbits will die if you feed them the orange part of a carrot, and only the orange part. They actually prefer to green at the top. For those rabbits, success IS what it seems!
A correction of the common adage to "look like a girl, think like a man/boss." This gives ANYONE the freedom to do what THEY want, throwing gender roles aside. The original post is problematic, from the word girl to man.