we try booze and drugs to make sense. we try counselors and psychiatrists to make sense. we read self help books. BUT we need to read THE BOOK, the Bible, to clear up the fog and make sense of our lives.
Some people, no matter what you do, are not going to be for you. Even if you changed, met all their demands and did everything they asked, they would still find something wrong. Ignore those critical voices. You don’t need those people’s approval.