Barbara Sher on Shy People's Perfectionism - You can't say "who am I to say it", slap your hand when you begin to think that. That's like saying "that person is starving but I'm not good enough cook to give them something to eat". EVEN IF YOUR FOOD TASTE LIKE CRAP, YOU GIVE THEM SOMETHING TO EAT. It's not about you, it's about them starving. You want to be perfect before helping somebody--but you can help them right now! BE PERFECT LATER.