When someone leaves you voluntarily and happily, let them go. Because when you fight for them, it’s not a fight for love, it’s a fight for your own obsession. Love is being happy together, not possessing each others happiness.
This is one of the hardest things to do because words are so important to many of us. But, with a you cannot ascribe any meaning to their words because they're always either lying or hoovering. ALWAYS pay attention to actions.
you can spend minutes hours days weeks or even months over-analyzing a situation trying to put the pieces together justifying what could've would've happened or you can leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on!