This is feminism. We are not all 'man haters'. We are not all extremists. Feminism may start with 'Fem' but it's purpose is gender equality. Not only for one gender but for all of them. The sexism that hurts women, also hurts men.
Yes, another reason why romantic comedies typically suck. Blatantly trivializing and promoting dismissive behavior towards another's feelings should not merit an affectionate or sexual response. <<< all these tropes just make me sick.