leave room in your garden for the angels to dance. I have a special "memory" garden where I put things I buy for my mom & other family members. (I don't like going to the cemetery. Plus, ornate things come up "missing" there.
Jenny Foxglove's Gothic Garden - Poker Primrose, a dazzling and different late-spring bloomer! An unusual alternative to grape hyacinth with vivid flower spikes that open from the bottom up. Grows tall in part shade.