st humans are never fully present in the now, because unconsciously they believe that the next moment must be more important than this one. But then you miss your whole life, which is never not now. And that's a revelation for some people: to realize
Eckhart Tolle: “Wisdom comes with the ability to be still. Just look and just listen. Being still, looking, and listening activates the non-conceptual intelligence within you Let stillness direct your words and actions.
I have repeated this quote many times. Just three choices: do something constructive about the situation, leave it.or radically accept it. It's the latter option that, once we learn it, can transform our lives.