After what you did I had no choice but feel like I was your back-up plan, so to speak. You told me you wanted to recapture some of your youth, but now it seams it was just a ruse for you trying to see if you could find someone better and replace me.
Just because a person doesn't put hands on you, that doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect and also hurtful words. Don't settle for emotional abuse, thinking it's okay because it's not physical.