I'm not a girl who wants to live the "ideal" life. I'm not a girl who will change my life for a man. I'm a girl who wants to live a life of adventure, and if some guy loves me, he won't mind tagging along.
You can try to convince yourself that what you think to be fact is indeed true, but believe me, your "facts" are only true in your mind. you couldn't be farther from the truth. Who are you trying to convince anyway!