Re-parent the Orphaned Child archetype/ split apart. Romantic relationships (Sacral Chakra) may trigger abandonment feelings, but it begins in the Root. See the threads of the pattern that run through all your relationships. Follow them back to their roots. Bring in the Mother archetype. Heal what needs to be healed. No matter who abandoned you, don't continue the pattern by abandoning yourself. We all have a divine right to be here. We're all deserving of love, respect, to be valued.